What?! Nobody told me this!

About those first few weeks and months of pregnancy and montehrhood…

The motherhood has been a great journey, and continues to be. It’s been filled with love, cuddles, smiles, more love, challenges, hospital visits, tears and cry (seriously a lot of crying), did I say lots of love? But first of all it has been a time where I have learn lots about how to care for a little human, how to care for myself and how to don’t care for things when they go utterly wrong.

When I first share the news about me being pregnant, it was all joy and jubilee for the family. I mean: me, the travel auntie, the black sheep who left hometown to live abroad, the crazy one, the reckless one, it was me having a baby. Me, that I’ve always said I wouldn’t have kids because they were so demanding. My family and friends went into the hype of happiness. The common thing to hear back then was: “Becoming a mother is the biggest, greatest of the blessings, in the world, in the whole universe”… Well, it is, but it’s also one of the scariest things you happen to ever live.

During all pregnancy, I was continuously wondering when the mom-to-be status was going to start feeling a blessing and a marvelous thing. I did suffer from all the ugly symptoms you can suffer while pregnant. All the nasty pains, I had them all: Symphysis Pubic Dysfunction, Carpal Tunnel, Sciatica, back pain, nausea, tiredness, joint pain, cramps. The whole 3 trimesters of my pregnancy went by with at least one of the not wanted illnesses associated with gravity status. As I’m always saying, I won’t complain at all, the pain didn’t stop me from enjoying the journey and at times I was kind of getting used to it.

My point all the time is: why do moms never speak about this?? why did no one ever prevent me that I will have this or that ache and it was going to be annoying to some extent? To make it worse, if I ask around, every single woman will tell you “Oh no, my pregnancy was amazing, didn’t suffer at all”, so I ended thinking “WTF is wrong with me then? Is it my age, is it fate, am I the 1 every 10,000 cases”…

Any time I visited my GP and talk through the list of things I was suffering from, he would go “oh yes, it will all disappear when you give birth”, “that’s not common but few women suffer from it, give it time and lots of rest”. The good news all the time was that regardless of the pains, my baby boy was growing healthy and strong. Yep, that was all I cared for.

One thing that’s real is that when you see the journey retrospectively, you absolutely think it was “grand” and tend to forget the downs and focus more on the ups. Nothing wrong about that, but I want to encourage to people reading this post to share with others how the parenthood experience develops, while it’s actually happening.

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I am now a new mom! :P

It’s been such a long time not writing at all.. why? not sure if it was all the adrenaline of becoming a mother and that my energy was all in one place: growing a healthy little human! Eating all the healthy food I could, going on walks, relaxing, putting my feet up, and all the good things your friends and family tell you to do, I did it all! and it was worthy.

Having said that, I was fully focused on taking care of myself while I was pregnant. And in May 2020, during the lockdown in Dublin, I gave birth to a healthy little boy that’s going to be 10 months old in a week. uff!

Time really flies when you’re looking at your children growing up

Now, the whole process of the pregnancy was very very pleasant. I did suffer from all the known symptoms a pregnant woman can have, but I don’t complain. I think at this stage I have forgotten all of the negative points. However, being pregnant during a pandemic is tuff work. Starting with the awful fact that you don’t get to have our significant one to your side on the medical checks, or at the hospital once you give birth. Not to mention how difficult it was as a first-time mum to go and shop online. I didn’t know anything about sizes, things you need, and things you don’t.. to say the less I ended up buying stuff we barely used, and buying last-minute essential items as I was oblivious to the fact we will use some things (novice issues).

Being a mom has changed my life and vision dramatically.. and I mean it. I can’t describe it perfectly, but I know that my life is totally different in so many ways. Positive and negative things but I will try to focus all the time on the positive things so I have enough strength to keep going.

So far, maternity has been so good that I really really want to do it once more ūüôā

My little baby at 9 months old..

I have my long list of the things that you’ve never been told by other mums, but I’ll leave it for a new post.. in the meantime: have a positive and happy day!

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A√Ī√≠simos sin escribir…

Lo s√©, soy un desastre dando seguimiento a mi blog… pero bueno, hoy me acord√© que no le dado movimiento y heme aqu√≠ escribiendo un poco.

Hoy voy a empezar con un tema totalmente random y es que no puede ser de otra manera despu√©s de tantos meses sin escribir. Y literal, el clima est√° haciendo de las suyas en Irlanda despu√©s que ha pasado un hurac√°n (Lorenzo cat. 5). Los efectos no estuvieron devastadores ni nada por el estilo aqu√≠ en Dubl√≠n, porque ya lleg√≥ degradado a tormenta, pero a√ļn as√≠ nos deja d√≠as y d√≠as de lluvia.

En Irlanda, no hay cosa que le guste más a la gente que hablar del clima. Sí, así como lo leen!. Casi cualquier plática iniciará con una referencia a la lluvia, el viento, el sol, las horas de luz, etc. En la tienda, en un taxi, con los colegas del trabajo, es más: con tus propios amigos mexicanos te encontrarás hablando de eso en cualquier charla tarde que temprano.

Y es que no es para menos, en Dublín por lo menos podemos experimentar todo tipo de clima en un día (a veces en un lapso de una hora). Es extremadamente cambiante y definitivamente captura tu atención porque a veces no te puedes creer que esté cayendo una lluvia tremenda y a los 10 minutos se despeje y se vea soleado, y después se suelten las ráfagas de viento terribles.. En fin, ésta es Irlanda!

Bueno, pues para resumir un poco el clima en general, porque en Irlanda no hay ciudades c√°lidas, o secas. La isla tiene el mismo comportamiento casi en todas direcciones.

  • Temporada de lluvias: Todo el a√Īo
  • Temporada C√°lida: De Mayo a Agosto son los meses de mayor calor as√≠ como los m√°s secos tambi√©n. Aqu√≠ es cuando puedes darte chance de usar mangas cortas y shorts.
  • Temporada de mucha luz de d√≠a: De Abril a Septiembre. En los meses de verano, puedes disfrutar de hasta 16 horas de luz (si no es que mas) ya que el amanecer puede ocurrir a las 4:30 am y se obscurece hasta las 10:30 √ļ 11:00 pm. Padr√≠simo porque sientes que el d√≠a dura eternidades.
  • Temporada de poca luz de d√≠a: Octubre a Marzo. Al llegar el invierno, por ah√≠ de Diciembre-Enero, tendr√°s alrededor de 7-8 hrs de luz m√°ximo, ya que puede ser que amanezca a las 9am y obscurece entre 4 y 5 pm. Aqu√≠ es cuando la gente se deprime.

Total que este clima no est√° hecho para cualquiera, mucho menos la ausencia de sol. Cuando est√©n planeando su visita / cambio de coordenadas, ser√≠a bueno que se pregunten a s√≠ mismos: cu√°nto me gusta el sol? Puedo vivir sin √©l por meses? De verdad me gusta el fr√≠o? (ese que se siente en los huesos por tanta humedad y que hace que tengamos la piel chinita el 90% del tiempo) ūüėÄ

Considérenme bicho raro, pero yo amo este clima, el de invierno! y los días grises y lluviosos.. aunque sufro mucho de frío, pero nada que un buen abrigo no resuelva.

Nos leeremos pronto!!

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